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	<title>Comments on: The right bait to get the right fish</title>
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		<title>By: Aaron</title>
		<link>http://ian.onthereddot.com/2007/07/17/the-right-bait-to-get-the-right-fish/comment-page-1/#comment-208</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Aug 2007 16:41:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mob War better. Cannot counter.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mob War better. Cannot counter.</p>
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		<title>By: Fearfully Opinionated</title>
		<link>http://ian.onthereddot.com/2007/07/17/the-right-bait-to-get-the-right-fish/comment-page-1/#comment-207</link>
		<dc:creator>Fearfully Opinionated</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Aug 2007 08:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL =P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL =P</p>
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		<title>By: iantimothy</title>
		<link>http://ian.onthereddot.com/2007/07/17/the-right-bait-to-get-the-right-fish/comment-page-1/#comment-206</link>
		<dc:creator>iantimothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Aug 2007 02:57:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lol..later he put Priority Contract on me...die!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lol..later he put Priority Contract on me&#8230;die!</p>
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		<title>By: Fearfully Opinionated</title>
		<link>http://ian.onthereddot.com/2007/07/17/the-right-bait-to-get-the-right-fish/comment-page-1/#comment-205</link>
		<dc:creator>Fearfully Opinionated</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Aug 2007 02:11:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>KNN. I go hoot Aaron for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>KNN. I go hoot Aaron for you.</p>
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		<title>By: iantimothy</title>
		<link>http://ian.onthereddot.com/2007/07/17/the-right-bait-to-get-the-right-fish/comment-page-1/#comment-204</link>
		<dc:creator>iantimothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2007 14:53:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wasn&#039;t invited.... :-(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wasn&#8217;t invited&#8230;. <img src='http://ian.onthereddot.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Fearfully Opinionated</title>
		<link>http://ian.onthereddot.com/2007/07/17/the-right-bait-to-get-the-right-fish/comment-page-1/#comment-203</link>
		<dc:creator>Fearfully Opinionated</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2007 14:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Been busy with my music commitments and my change of career. Now that I&#039;m more settled, I may plan a comeback for FO. Are you going for Aaron&#039;s wedding btw?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Been busy with my music commitments and my change of career. Now that I&#8217;m more settled, I may plan a comeback for FO. Are you going for Aaron&#8217;s wedding btw?</p>
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		<title>By: iantimothy</title>
		<link>http://ian.onthereddot.com/2007/07/17/the-right-bait-to-get-the-right-fish/comment-page-1/#comment-202</link>
		<dc:creator>iantimothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2007 13:38:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lol.  I &lt;strike&gt;wish&lt;/strike&gt;...oops..gf reads this blog too...anyway, how you been...haven&#039;t heard from you for some time...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lol.  I <strike>wish</strike>&#8230;oops..gf reads this blog too&#8230;anyway, how you been&#8230;haven&#8217;t heard from you for some time&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Fearfully Opinionated</title>
		<link>http://ian.onthereddot.com/2007/07/17/the-right-bait-to-get-the-right-fish/comment-page-1/#comment-201</link>
		<dc:creator>Fearfully Opinionated</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2007 10:28:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wah biang, you sound like you can be...the Char Bor Guru. =P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wah biang, you sound like you can be&#8230;the Char Bor Guru. =P</p>
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		<title>By: iantimothy</title>
		<link>http://ian.onthereddot.com/2007/07/17/the-right-bait-to-get-the-right-fish/comment-page-1/#comment-200</link>
		<dc:creator>iantimothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jul 2007 05:54:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, thanks for sharing your thoughts.  And no, you most definitely do not sound like a preacher.  A preacher would tell me I&#039;m going to hell, but that is another story for another time.

I also most definitely, one hundred percent, agree with you that commitment is a decision, not a feeling.

I hope I&#039;m not being too intrusive, but are you a gal or guy?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, thanks for sharing your thoughts.  And no, you most definitely do not sound like a preacher.  A preacher would tell me I&#8217;m going to hell, but that is another story for another time.</p>
<p>I also most definitely, one hundred percent, agree with you that commitment is a decision, not a feeling.</p>
<p>I hope I&#8217;m not being too intrusive, but are you a gal or guy?</p>
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		<title>By: seeprompt</title>
		<link>http://ian.onthereddot.com/2007/07/17/the-right-bait-to-get-the-right-fish/comment-page-1/#comment-199</link>
		<dc:creator>seeprompt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jul 2007 05:37:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I particularly endorse  the notion of &quot;Thinking about it this way, maybe then we would focus on making ourselves worthy partners instead of worrying how to get the treasure (i.e. girl)&quot;.

On a personal note, it is getting tiresome for me to constantly hear complains that partners do not measure up to &quot;expectations&quot;.  Thus ending in breakups or worse, divorce.

Someone said that, &quot;The moment selfishness enters a relationship, grief and suffering will follow&quot;.  As everyone already knows, to make a relationship last it takes commitment.  And commitment is not a feeling, it is a decision.

P.S. Apologies for sounding like a &quot;preacher&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I particularly endorse  the notion of &#8220;Thinking about it this way, maybe then we would focus on making ourselves worthy partners instead of worrying how to get the treasure (i.e. girl)&#8221;.</p>
<p>On a personal note, it is getting tiresome for me to constantly hear complains that partners do not measure up to &#8220;expectations&#8221;.  Thus ending in breakups or worse, divorce.</p>
<p>Someone said that, &#8220;The moment selfishness enters a relationship, grief and suffering will follow&#8221;.  As everyone already knows, to make a relationship last it takes commitment.  And commitment is not a feeling, it is a decision.</p>
<p>P.S. Apologies for sounding like a &#8220;preacher&#8221;.</p>
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