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	<title>Comments on: Screwing The Girl Some Other Guy Really Loves</title>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 09:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nvr try nvr know. Put it this way, LKY ever mentioned that Lim Kim San, Hon Sui San n perhaps his own wife are people who can tell accurately abt anthr person's character.

I dunno noe how true it is but then there was YK, TCW cases of the past. So nothing is fool proof. I am not saying the interview panel ppl are not capable of doing their work.

I just think that statistically the more the 'viewing', perhaps there is a better chance. Look at American  Idol for example, the risk of it being a popularity contest is counterbalanced by the judges' comments and the person's performance from show to show (i.e. track record). Once an Idol is selected, it seems that he/she cannot go far wrong in the box office. However whether he/she will become an evergreen veteran like Elton John, Celine Dion or ahem, just Whitney Houston alone, hard to say.

Look at cnet.com. amazon.com, petitiononline etc etc, it's more than just social networking, it is democractization at work to some degree. It's just the odds and that possibly collectively there will be some wisdom better than one person saying or endorsing.

My guess is that if taken in a serious context rather than a trivial context, and structure properly, chances are the results are valuable, better than no results. Heck, even blogging with comments coming in is in a similar vein. It's just more transparent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nvr try nvr know. Put it this way, LKY ever mentioned that Lim Kim San, Hon Sui San n perhaps his own wife are people who can tell accurately abt anthr person&#8217;s character.</p>
<p>I dunno noe how true it is but then there was YK, TCW cases of the past. So nothing is fool proof. I am not saying the interview panel ppl are not capable of doing their work.</p>
<p>I just think that statistically the more the &#8216;viewing&#8217;, perhaps there is a better chance. Look at American  Idol for example, the risk of it being a popularity contest is counterbalanced by the judges&#8217; comments and the person&#8217;s performance from show to show (i.e. track record). Once an Idol is selected, it seems that he/she cannot go far wrong in the box office. However whether he/she will become an evergreen veteran like Elton John, Celine Dion or ahem, just Whitney Houston alone, hard to say.</p>
<p>Look at cnet.com. amazon.com, petitiononline etc etc, it&#8217;s more than just social networking, it is democractization at work to some degree. It&#8217;s just the odds and that possibly collectively there will be some wisdom better than one person saying or endorsing.</p>
<p>My guess is that if taken in a serious context rather than a trivial context, and structure properly, chances are the results are valuable, better than no results. Heck, even blogging with comments coming in is in a similar vein. It&#8217;s just more transparent.</p>
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		<title>By: iantimothy</title>
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		<dc:creator>iantimothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 07:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the video taping idea.

Especially since there have been studies to show that you can use facial recognition tools to see if someone is lying or not.  Hiya...just put them on a lie detector...ok ok..abit extreme...

hmmm..but interesting point, do you think that the wisdom of the crowd can better select scholars than a committee?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the video taping idea.</p>
<p>Especially since there have been studies to show that you can use facial recognition tools to see if someone is lying or not.  Hiya&#8230;just put them on a lie detector&#8230;ok ok..abit extreme&#8230;</p>
<p>hmmm..but interesting point, do you think that the wisdom of the crowd can better select scholars than a committee?</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 06:59:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I did mention b4 elsewhere, dun over-romanticise this whole thing.

n as for the video, dun edit or censor it. the successful scholar gets to keep a copy in digital format of course. in this way, no one will forget easily wat was said, how it was said etc, why? wat were the thots n motivations there and then.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I did mention b4 elsewhere, dun over-romanticise this whole thing.</p>
<p>n as for the video, dun edit or censor it. the successful scholar gets to keep a copy in digital format of course. in this way, no one will forget easily wat was said, how it was said etc, why? wat were the thots n motivations there and then.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 06:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>video tape then. do a lie detector test etc, that will save everyone including the young ones lots of heartache later on.

btw, video tape the interview panel also.

put them on youtube, and let collective wisdom have a say, no lah, just kidding.

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Those who say, “I hope we somehow managed to make the lives of those people there better.” Consider them.

But since I mentioned it, people are probably already mugging this model answer (in my not so humble opinion).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>video tape then. do a lie detector test etc, that will save everyone including the young ones lots of heartache later on.</p>
<p>btw, video tape the interview panel also.</p>
<p>put them on youtube, and let collective wisdom have a say, no lah, just kidding.</p>
<p>_______________________________________<br />
Those who say, “I hope we somehow managed to make the lives of those people there better.” Consider them.</p>
<p>But since I mentioned it, people are probably already mugging this model answer (in my not so humble opinion).</p>
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		<title>By: iantimothy</title>
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		<dc:creator>iantimothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 06:30:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Dan!  hahaha... i like the way you extended the analogy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Dan!  hahaha&#8230; i like the way you extended the analogy.</p>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 05:58:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Since there are always 2 sides to any argument, maybe we shd do like what Tony tan proposed. That is to tweak the scholarship systems, hopefully nobody rapes, molest sodomise anybody and everyone had a good time after that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since there are always 2 sides to any argument, maybe we shd do like what Tony tan proposed. That is to tweak the scholarship systems, hopefully nobody rapes, molest sodomise anybody and everyone had a good time after that.</p>
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		<title>By: Ned Stark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ned Stark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Mar 2007 18:03:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said!!!

"But to deny the consequences of it and use sugar coated justifications or finger pointing blame laying..that’s wrong "

I see ur also a believer in the notions of honor. At the end there are those who believe in me myself and i and those who believe that a word must be kept and money doesnt solve everything.

But ur title abit the insensitive to certain groups of people :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said!!!</p>
<p>&#8220;But to deny the consequences of it and use sugar coated justifications or finger pointing blame laying..that’s wrong &#8221;</p>
<p>I see ur also a believer in the notions of honor. At the end there are those who believe in me myself and i and those who believe that a word must be kept and money doesnt solve everything.</p>
<p>But ur title abit the insensitive to certain groups of people <img src='http://ian.onthereddot.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: The Crane</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Crane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Mar 2007 02:36:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Right on!
A rare commodity. Oxymoron.
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We need astute recruiters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Right on!<br />
A rare commodity. Oxymoron.<br />
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<p>We need astute recruiters.</p>
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		<title>By: iantimothy</title>
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		<dc:creator>iantimothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 17:03:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hahaha, sir ... I'm sure you comment in jest.

There are only that many people in the world who can possibly be good judge of character.  And I am not one of them.

In any case, we don't need managers for the scholarship program.  We need astute recruiters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hahaha, sir &#8230; I&#8217;m sure you comment in jest.</p>
<p>There are only that many people in the world who can possibly be good judge of character.  And I am not one of them.</p>
<p>In any case, we don&#8217;t need managers for the scholarship program.  We need astute recruiters.</p>
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		<title>By: The Crane</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Crane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 15:18:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A*STAR should hire you to manage their scholarship program. Ha!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A*STAR should hire you to manage their scholarship program. Ha!</p>
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